Human Sexuality is Complicated……..
This video rules and this guy rules and you should all take 3:49 seconds to watch it and learn something, or show it to someone else so they can learn something.
It is succinct, easy to understand, and inclusive.
From now on every time someone asks me how I am a lesbian in love with a man I should stop writing them posts about it and just tell them to watch this video because it does my job for me. With pictures!
"The (500) Days of Summer attitude of “He wants you so bad” seems attractive to some women and men, especially younger ones, but I would encourage anyone who has a crush on my character to watch it again and examine how selfish he is. He develops a mildly delusional obsession over a girl onto whom he projects all these fantasies. He thinks she’ll give his life meaning because he doesn’t care about much else going on in his life. A lot of boys and girls think their lives will have meaning if they find a partner who wants nothing else in life but them. That’s not healthy. That’s falling in love with the idea of a person, not the actual person."
— Joseph Gordon-Levitt (x)